FEMDOM Michigan Fetlife group Fetish & BDSM Club
Address: Michigan, USA
Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/groups/5717
Welcome to FEMDOM Michigan
FEMDOM Michigan is a group of Dominant Females and the subs, slaves, bottoms, or pets dedicated to them, regardless of gender. This group is for everyone interested in Female Power, Dominance, Control, etc. While many common notions of “FemDom” assume a Female Dominant/male-submissive mindset, this group does not. If you are a submissive, all that is required is a love of or interest in FemDom and our lives. It is a learning place where ideas, opinions, and preferences can be discussed. Your skill level is not important. We welcome beginners, novices, and experts in the art of FemDom.
We are a social group that promotes empowering Dominant Women by offering a forum for unity; FemDom education; support; socializing; safe, sane and consensual play; and mentoring. One of our goals is to promote discussion about general D/s & BDSM topics as well as topics specific to Female Dominance in the lifestyle. With permission, the group may also be used to post information on occasional munches, demos, education, round-tables, etc.
Approaches to FemDom may vary, but they are always consensual; as such, each Domme’s path is to be respected. There is no One True Way. Hopefully we all can learn from one another while respecting our differences. To maintain the highest standards within this group the Owner and Moderators reserve the right to select {or deny} membership at their discretion.
This is a real-life group that will meet on occasion for camaraderie, discussions, on-going education, as well as a yearly party. FemDoms who are friendly and helpful to other FemDoms and help them grow in their fetish knowledge and abilities are always welcome to join our Sisterhood.
Rules:
By clicking JOIN you acknowledge you have read, understood, and agree to abide by all of the following rules:
- No personal ads on/in the main discussion board. Looking for/ seeking ads are not allowed on the main discussion board and they will be removed. Please post ALL personal ads in the STICKY designated for those desired situations
- Please be respectful, polite, and courteous. Members will act with civility towards each other or be moderated out and their comments removed.
- Negative, derogatory, or inflammatory posts will be removed at the discretion of the Owner and Moderator of the group.
- If you have a FemDom local event, please ask for permission prior to posting. Unsure or unclear if your post meets our criteria, PM the Owner BEFORE you post it.
- You must be a vetted member of our group to attend any of our Meet and Greets, Instruction Nights, or participate at the annual private play party. Membership acceptance will be at discretion of Kitty_With_Claws and MizMayhem.
- Adults only (18 and older) ID required to attend any FEMDOM Michigan function.
- No Solicitation (personal or professional)
- No flaming or trolling (male or female)
- No compromising the identity and/or safety of the members.
- You must be local to our region.
- Rules are subject to change without notice. Their merits or shortcomings are not subject to debate.
- No games like “Fuck or Pass”
- No means NO!
- Members may not block the Owner or Moderators. If a you block them, you will be banned. Blocking a Moderator hinders/interferes with the ability to effectively manage the group by severing the ability to communicate freely with group members. No exceptions.
- For safety, party locations or the people attending are never to be posted in any format viewable to the general public…ever. We appreciate your discretion.
- A reply to a post must be on topic!
- No one liners. Single sentence posts rarely lead to meaningful discussions.
Anyone who does not follow the above rules will have the thread closed or the post/reply removed. Additionally, its author can be removed or banned without notice or warning.
Ladies, please post a polite introduction upon joining the group. Introductions belong in the STICKY, not in/on the main discussion board.
males MUST post a short, polite introduction in the STICKY designated for them but NOT a personal ad.
Ladies can post for submissives to perform particular tasks such as house boys, cleaning crew, or whipping boy in the STICKY designated for those types services.
Any Domme, Female Dominant, Female Top, etc. who is not comfortable / willing to post / create a thread / respond to a thread using their profile is welcome to PM me and I will be glad to discuss posting for you.
While we may have some Pro-Dom / Dominatrix members, FEMDOM Michigan should not be considered a place to promote your Pro-Dom business or gain clientele. These posts will be removed by the Owner/Moderator.
Members must fit within what the group name describes. Male Dominants and any submissives with no inclination towards serving Female Dominants will most likely be removed and possibly banned if their behaviour is found to be not in keeping with these precepts.
Topics such as:
Public humiliation, Orgasm denial, Sissy Slut Training, Chastity/Key holding, Pain training, Punishment, Forced Feminization, Fetish exploration, Extreme humiliation, Role play, Food fetish play, Boot/Shoe fetish, Stocking/Sock fetish, CBT, NT, CD, Puppy/Pet training, Tiny cock humiliation, Foot worship, Body Worship, Strap-on training, Flogging, Spitting, Clamps, Asphyxiation, Slapping, Intimidation, Biting, Ball Busting, Hand cuffs/Shackles and Leather Restraints are welcomed in/on the main discussion board.
Finally, a word about D/s (Dominance/submission) -vs- BDSM. To some Women, being Dominant means having a man at Her service for such things as house cleaning, massages, manicures/pedicures, etc. To other Women, dungeon scenes using BDSM equipment such as whips, paddles, canes and ropes are their ways to enjoy Female Domination. BDSM describes Sadomasochistic behaviours which are not necessarily desired by all Women who Dominate men. It is important for potential new members to realize these differences and understand that FemDoms may choose one or a combination of both to achieve fulfillment. The focus of this group is on both Dominant/submissive activities and behaviours between Women & their submissive partners as well as the BDSM aspects.
Please keep an open mind and remember that each relationship is between the people involved.
Discussions not allowed:
- Asking others why you are desirable or not desirable (able to attract a Female Dominant’s interest). This is not a discussion topic. Posing such questions in the discussion forum will result in your post being removed and chances are good you will be banned.
- This forum is for individuals. Not companies, other FL forums, organizations, etc.
- Questions which could be construed as seeking ads: Would any Dominant Women be interested in cock and ball torture….? Do any FemDoms enjoy Queening….? Any Dommes in ____ or near _____? or Am I the only Dominant Female member who has a smoking fetish? Such “questions” will be considered seeking ads. If in doubt, PM the owner first.
- Posts and/or replies which include a link to another group, forum, discussion, web site, video, article, etc. are forbidden, unless approved prior to posting. Those who respond, with or without a link, will have their reply deleted.
- NO quantity questions e.g. How many members are in such and such location? How many members like (or dislike) something? How many would like or do _____? This is a discussion forum, treat it as such. It is not a research paper nor quantitative measurement survey. Anyone who poses such a question and anyone who answers will be warned or removed from the group.
- Legitimate, sincere questions are welcome but posts regarding “tales / stories / reports” what my Mistress did to me or made me do; ideas / suggestions for scenes; ideas or input for appropriate / more extreme / harsher punishment; reward(s); behaviour modification; etc. must be posted by the FemDom, Female Dominant, Domme, Dominant Woman, etc and not the submissive. Do not claim your Mistress instructed you to do so.
- Posting, “I hope this post is within the group rules.” is not acceptable. Do not expect to get a free pass by saying in your post that you hope it is okay or “…. remove the post/thread if it is not okay”.
- PM the owner if your post or thread reply has been removed for noncompliance with the rules. Do not respond on the forum.
- For clarification, the rules/guidelines above are intended to discourage members, no matter their role or gender, from starting/posting to a thread which may be seen as ‘bragging’ about/sharing what they do, seek or derive personal/sexual/erotic pleasure or actual gratification from the post or replies. Such posts are often called “wank fodder” and are subject to removal as well as the poster.
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